My “boyfriend” doesn’t consider me his girlfriend What should I do?
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Me and this guy have been “together” for a little over a year. things moved really fast and I truly love him with all my heart. we dated for about 6 months and I did something extremely stupid and i got together with my ex (I didn’t do anything with him) I did tell my boyfriend that i saw him and hung out with him and he got REALLY upset. I still talked to my ex for a while just as a friend though. my ex thought that we were going to get back together. my boyfriend saw my text messages and we broke up. I know what i did was terrible. I regret it every day. he started to not believe anything i told him like what i was doing where i was going and if i put make up on he thought it was because i was going to be seeing my ex. I cut off ALL connections with my ex I deleted his number, i deleted him from my friends list on facebook and i even deleted all the pictures of me and him from my facebook and computer. I haven’t talked to him in 6 months. I really want to prove to him that I love him and want to be his actual girlfriend. we still talk almost every 2 hours when im not with him, and when he is actually at home i pretty much live with him. we still kiss and go places together and he will say things like “…well, me and my girlfriend…” but when i bring it up he says well your not my girlfriend. a couple days ago I asked him if we were doing anything for v-day and he never said anything so i asked him if he would be MY valentine and he said “babe you know i will” I really want to do something special for him but i am on a budget. what should I do? and I really want to ask him to be my BOYFRIEND again how should i go about asking him?
PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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Answer by Anthony
Give him head. The best valentines gift a girl could give. (And I’m not kidding). If you want to show him you care, get down and dirty. You don’t have to have sex, but you could at least give him head. If you love him so much.
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It’s called power play. He knows you feel bad, and he’s milking it to act like the KING of the relationship.
Just set an ultimatum.
Tell him you’re tired of constantly apologizing for something that was a misunderstanding. If he wants to be with you, then he should be with you. If he doesn’t, you’re not going to wait around wondering if things will ever be okay.
Good luck.
You can’t call him your boyfriend if he wants nothing to do with you.