Question by Boomooloo: Women, would you like to be divorced & then “taken back” like this?
These are the relevant verses, not from any hadith but from the Quran itself!
It speaks about how husbands ought to divorce wife\wives, note it speaks only about husbands divorcing wives, not vice versa, although certain Quranists like Miss S—-umpteenth account likes to gloss over this fact with irrelevant quotes from sites!
First the husband decides to divorce his wife, with a “cooling period”
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YUSUFALI: O Prophet! When ye do divorce women, divorce them at their prescribed periods, and count (accurately), their prescribed periods: And fear Allah your Lord: and turn them not out of their houses, nor shall they (themselves) leave, except in case they are guilty of some open lewdness, those are limits set by Allah: and any who transgresses the limits of Allah, does verily wrong his (own) soul: thou knowest not if perchance Allah will bring about thereafter some new situation.
PICKTHAL: O Prophet! When ye (men) put away women, put them away for their (legal) period and reckon the period, and keep your duty to Allah, your Lord. Expel them not from their houses nor let them go forth unless they commit open immorality. Such are the limits (imposed by) Allah; and whoso transgresseth Allah’s limits, he verily wrongeth his soul. Thou knowest not: it may be that Allah will afterward bring some new thing to pass.
SHAKIR: O Prophet! when you divorce women, divorce them for~ their prescribed time, and calculate the number of the days prescribed, and be careful of (your duty to) Allah, your Lord. Do not drive them out of their houses, nor should they themselves go forth, unless they commit an open indecency; and these are the limits of Allah, and whoever goes beyond the limits of Allah, he indeed does injustice to his own soul. You do not know that Allah may after that bring about reunion.
Then after that period, husband decides whether to actually divorce his wife, or not to divorce her after all!
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YUSUFALI: Thus when they fulfil their term appointed, either take them back on equitable terms or part with them on equitable terms; and take for witness two persons from among you, endued with justice, and establish the evidence (as) before Allah. Such is the admonition given to him who believes in Allah and the Last Day. And for those who fear Allah, He (ever) prepares a way out,
PICKTHAL: Then, when they have reached their term, take them back in kindness or part from them in kindness, and call to witness two just men among you, and keep your testimony upright for Allah. Whoso believeth in Allah and the Last Day is exhorted to act thus. And whosoever keepeth his duty to Allah, Allah will appoint a way out for him,
SHAKIR: So when they have reached their prescribed time, then retain them with kindness or separate them with kindness, and call to witness two men of justice from among you, and give upright testimony for Allah. With that is admonished he who believes in Allah and the latter day; and whoever is careful of (his duty to) Allah, He will make for him an outlet,
So wouldn’t you find such a process humiliating, wherein husband decides to divorce, takes time for “cooling down” & then finally decides whether to really get rid of you or to keep you as his wife after all?
Note that these verses are addressed exclusively to men with “when you divorce your wives!”!
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Answer by fnk
Our women are well treated than your women
You treat your women as slaves to your desires, we treat them as honour
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